I don't believe it when someone says 'i have given everything to a relation', I find it difficult to cope up with relations that demand everything you have. And why should a relation which demands respect and self esteem consume whatever truly defines you. On retrospection i realize we all do it sometime or the other, we all nag our loved ones for things they are not interested in doing. But why do we do that?
Its because as an individual we go through a lot of experiences some of which are the first time experiences, like maybe a camp or a clubbing experience that was your first. And you like it, you enjoy it. Then you want to try it again but this time maybe with a different set of people. You want to go with your boyfriend or may be your sibling. But they are the kinda people who would not want to step out of their comfort zone. This has happened with me so often that i think i have given up the things i want to try out with a certain set of people.
I think some part of your life you should live purely for yourself. Doing things purely for yourself, if no one accompanies you go ahead and do it alone.
Planning to start a 50 things i am definitely going to do.
Pretty soon...
Its because as an individual we go through a lot of experiences some of which are the first time experiences, like maybe a camp or a clubbing experience that was your first. And you like it, you enjoy it. Then you want to try it again but this time maybe with a different set of people. You want to go with your boyfriend or may be your sibling. But they are the kinda people who would not want to step out of their comfort zone. This has happened with me so often that i think i have given up the things i want to try out with a certain set of people.
I think some part of your life you should live purely for yourself. Doing things purely for yourself, if no one accompanies you go ahead and do it alone.
Planning to start a 50 things i am definitely going to do.
Pretty soon...
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